Baby Gift Etiquette: Do’s and Don’ts for Showers and First Visits

Welcoming a new baby into the world is a joyful experience—but for friends and family, it can also bring up a few questions: What gift should you bring? When is it appropriate to give it? Are there things to avoid?

Whether you're attending a baby shower or meeting bub for the first time, understanding a few basic etiquette tips can help make your gesture meaningful and appreciated.

Do: Check the Baby Registry First

Many parents set up a baby registry with specific items they need. Checking the registry ensures your gift will be useful and avoids duplicates. If you’re not sure where the registry is, ask the parents or the event host.

And if you’re shopping last-minute or prefer in-person browsing, educational toys and essentials like swaddles or books are always welcome. My Playroom offers thoughtfully selected toys for all ages, perfect for gifting.

Don’t: Buy Loud or Overstimulating Toys

While flashy toys may grab attention, newborns need calm and gentle stimulation. Avoid anything with loud sounds, flashing lights, or strong fragrances, especially for the early months.

Instead, consider soft plush toys, sensory rattles, or Montessori-style gifts that encourage developmental play without overstimulation.

Do: Include a Gift Receipt

Even the best-intentioned gifts might not work out due to preferences, size mismatches, or duplicates. Including a gift receipt makes exchanges easier and shows consideration.

If you’re ordering online, many retailers (like Australia Post) offer gift return options—just be sure to keep digital records.

Don’t: Arrive Empty-Handed to a First Visit

If you're visiting the baby soon after birth, bring a small gift for bub—or even better, something helpful for the parents, like a meal or self-care item.

Practical gifts like nappy creams, baby wipes, or a pack of soft bibs show thoughtfulness and support during those sleep-deprived early weeks.

Do: Think Beyond Baby Clothes

It’s tempting to buy tiny onesies, but most babies already receive more than they can wear. Instead, opt for:

• Board books

• Sensory toys

• Soft teethers

• Keepsake items like handprint kits

Unique, high-quality toys (like those from First Five Years) can encourage early learning and be treasured well beyond the newborn stage.

Don’t: Forget the Siblings (If Any)

If the family has older children, consider bringing a small gift for them, too. A colouring book, puzzle, or toy helps them feel included and eases the transition to big siblinghood.

It’s a small gesture that goes a long way in making everyone feel seen and celebrated.

Do: Respect the Parents’ Wishes

Some parents may have preferences around gift types, materials, or themes (e.g. plastic-free, gender-neutral, organic). Respecting these requests shows thoughtfulness.

And always ask before bringing food gifts, as allergies or dietary needs may apply.

Thoughtful Giving Goes a Long Way

At the end of the day, the best baby gifts are those chosen with love, care, and consideration. Whether it’s a plush comforter, a handmade card, or a beautifully illustrated storybook, your gift is a gesture of welcome and support.

Find thoughtful baby gifts at My Playrooms stores in Chadstone and Camberwell, or shop online. We offer Free Standard Shipping for orders over $89！